Learning to move on...

Should co-op boards be forced to provide a reason for board turn-downs?

The Times covered the debate in the Sunday Real Estate section-and a bill may be instituted forcing boards to do so. No date is set for the hearing. New York Magazine had an article about this sometime last fall, adding that boards may also have time limits on making their decisions.

We think this is like dating-- giving a reason is the polite thing to do after rejecting someone, but should it be mandatory? Seems extreme to enact such measures, afterall, all is fair in love. Can’t people just accept that maybe the co-op just isn’t that into you?

Everybody hates rejection but it’s a part of life. If you were accepted by every co-op you wouldn’t be as happy with true love with a real co-op when you found it. Furthermore, do you really want to live in a co-op that rejected you the first time around?

There are plenty of co-ops in the sea, not to mention condos, condops, rentals, brownstones, etc.

We can be your matchmaker, and help you avoid nasty rejection scenarios. Often, as in dating, it’s just a matter of how you present yourself. 212-734-1800.

If a Co-op Kills a Sale, Should It Say Why?, New York Times

The Rules of Rejection, New York Magazine

This post was written by HH Realty Group and originally appeared here

Apartment Tips

Get rid of things. Don’t get attached to items. Throw them away. If you haven’t touched something in a year, get rid of it, donate it, sell it on Ebay, or just throw it in the trash. Throw stuff away quarterly. Don’t buy so much stuff. Buying more things just keeps you busier with those things. You’ll have more time for thinking if you have less stuff.

Get books from the library instead of buying them. For magazines, just go to Barnes and Noble or Duane Reade and read up. Or use your office copies.

The less stuff you have the easier it is to keep clean. This goes for clothes, knickknacks, and furniture. Simplify and only keep things you need. Especially if you live in one of these glass houses, or a 200 sq ft studio. Then you can cut down on cleaning.

Spend money on long term essentials like a good cutting knife, but scrimp on trash bags and paper towels.

Squeegee your shower after every use. That way you don’t have to re-caulk, your caulk will stay fresh for years.

Use Vinegar and Baking Soda in lieu of cleaning products. Cheaper, just as effective, and healthier.

Dryer sheets do nothing.

Lock your windows and doors and put up curtains, blinds, window treatments etc.-don’t send invitations to robbers.

Have an escape plan in case of a fire.

Browse Home Depot and Hardware Stores- and take notes. Space saving ideas, redecorating tips, and creative renovations will just pop into your head via osmosis. For instance: You can build a pot and pan rack with a wooden dowel and some “S”hooks. 

This post originally appeared here and was written by HH Realty Group